I'VE GOT A CRUSHH. IT'S ABOUT TO GET REEAL SERIOUS. I THINK I'M IN LOOVE.
You know how people say "To love someone else, you must first love yourself"? Well, it turns out they are right! If you're looking for a catch, you've got to be a catch. You have to believe it. There's a glow, a certain aura, that people give off when they are in love or loving what they are doing, and people can't help but find it irresistibly attractive. Fall in love with yourself, and you may be surprised to find great things and great people start to gravitate towards you. It's time stop searching out there for your perfect match, and put all that energy back towards yourself. Foster that self-love and self-worth that we so often downplay, ignore or deny. Too often, people settle for what they think they deserve. Do yourself a favor: raise your self-esteem, your standards and your expectations. Today. For a change, try treating yourself the way you would expect your ideal partner to treat you. In other words, date yourself! Compliment yourself, treat yourself, wine and dine yourself, impress yourself. Go out of your way to make you smile. We have an endless supply of love, so toss some of it to the one person that will always be there: you.

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

#25 RULE OF ME-LOVE

Have an attitude of gratitude

It's easy to get caught up in the wanting game. When you start feeling deprived or sorry for yourself, make a very conscious note of what you are grateful for. You have a lot going for you.

At least one person in this world loves me unconditionally.
A lot of people care about me.
I have a closet full of clothes.
I live in a beautiful and free country.
I eat three meals a day.
I am smart and talented and good looking.
I am HEALTHY.
I am among the most privileged people in the world.
I am so lucky to be alive and be me.
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2 comments:

  1. -Kurt MOctober 22, 2011 at 9:43 AM

    This is great Tori =) Thanks!

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  2. KPOctober 22, 2011 at 4:19 PM

    Tori!
    You are spectacular and your blog is inspiring!
    You could not be more right! I know this will help me love myself more (i know its corny but its exactly what i need)
    all my love to an amazing person and friend!
    xoxo Katie

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