I'VE GOT A CRUSHH. IT'S ABOUT TO GET REEAL SERIOUS. I THINK I'M IN LOOVE.
You know how people say "To love someone else, you must first love yourself"? Well, it turns out they are right! If you're looking for a catch, you've got to be a catch. You have to believe it. There's a glow, a certain aura, that people give off when they are in love or loving what they are doing, and people can't help but find it irresistibly attractive. Fall in love with yourself, and you may be surprised to find great things and great people start to gravitate towards you. It's time stop searching out there for your perfect match, and put all that energy back towards yourself. Foster that self-love and self-worth that we so often downplay, ignore or deny. Too often, people settle for what they think they deserve. Do yourself a favor: raise your self-esteem, your standards and your expectations. Today. For a change, try treating yourself the way you would expect your ideal partner to treat you. In other words, date yourself! Compliment yourself, treat yourself, wine and dine yourself, impress yourself. Go out of your way to make you smile. We have an endless supply of love, so toss some of it to the one person that will always be there: you.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

#3 RULE OF ME-LOVE

Make yourself nice meals

We all have to eat, regardless of our relationship status. But when you're cooking for one, it's easy to fall into a rut of making the same meals all the time, substituting Cheerios for lunch and dinner or perhaps getting fast food instead. Make a point of preparing yourself a nice meal. Pull out that recipe that you usually reserve for company or that 3rd date meal you would normally make to impress your partner. Even if you are having a simple meal or a mac n' cheese night, do something to make the meal a little more special. Set the table before you sit down, put on a favorite cd, add a garnish to the dish, light a candle, pour yourself a nice glass of wine to go with that KD. Sit down and enjoy your company, and thank yourself for taking the time to prepare such a lovely meal.
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